Bathing a cat can be one of the most daunting tasks for any pet owner. Most cats aren’t fans of water, and even the calmest feline may panic once they realize bath time is approaching. But sometimes, whether due to a skin condition, fleas, or a messy accident, a bath becomes necessary. The good news? With the right approach, bathing your cat can be a manageable and even bonding experience.

The first step is preparation — and it’s more than just filling the tub. You’ll want to trim your cat’s nails a day before the bath to minimize any potential scratching during the process. Brush your cat thoroughly to remove loose fur and detangle any knots, which helps prevent matting when their fur gets wet. It’s also a good idea to place a non-slip mat or towel in the sink or tub to give your cat secure footing and reduce anxiety.

Use a cat-specific shampoo — never human products — as feline skin is sensitive and easily irritated by harsh ingredients. Fill the sink or tub with just a few inches of lukewarm water, enough to wet the fur without fully submerging your cat. Before you begin, have everything you need within reach: shampoo, a cup or sprayer, a washcloth, and a towel.

When you’re ready, gently but confidently place your cat in the water. Speak softly and reassuringly to keep them calm. Start by wetting the fur with the cup or sprayer, avoiding the face. Once the coat is damp, apply a small amount of shampoo and lather gently, working from the neck down to the tail. Be sure to rinse thoroughly—any residue left behind can cause itching or dryness.

Use a damp washcloth to carefully wipe your cat’s face, staying away from the eyes and inside the ears. Avoid pouring or spraying water directly on the head, as most cats hate that and may become stressed.

Once the bath is over, wrap your cat in a warm towel immediately. Gently pat them dry and keep them in a warm, draft-free room until they are fully dry. Some cats may tolerate a hair dryer on a low, cool setting—but many will not. Respect their comfort level.

The key to a successful bath is to stay calm yourself. Cats pick up on our energy, and the more relaxed you are, the more likely your cat will stay calm too. And remember, not all cats need regular baths. Most do an excellent job grooming themselves. Bathing is usually only necessary when your vet recommends it, or when your cat gets into something they can’t clean off on their own.

With time and patience, your cat might even get used to the process. Until then, gentle handling, the right tools, and lots of treats afterward can turn a stressful situation into a tolerable—and possibly even positive—experience.